The plus side of putting yourself online is the accessibility. With the heightened social situation most present in college, it can be a phenomenal resource to let others know where you are coming from, my interests. On the flip side, and what I consider to be a greater benefit, is the ability to learn about others.
True, it can become too much with the number of outlets people choose to engage in. Take Twitter for example... I believe this quick update format to be a considerable advantage for those who have little time to keep in touch with close friends. It is also a way for people to waste time relaying the minutia of life to the world, as if we all want to know what Tila Tequila was thinking after her house was broken into on Sunday.
Without a doubt, these advantages come at the downside of skewed authenticity. We discussed the legitimacy of sources early on, but even a Facebook page can become an outlet for insincerity. The ability to distance ourselves from how we wish others to view us is scary at times. With the ability to create a completely fictitious persona, its hard to value these new sources of interpersonal connection.
Away from the social aspects of new media, the Internet's various outlets for intellectual discussion will surely stimulate greater access to various viewpoints. As Lee Rainie, the director of the Pew Internet & American Life Project, says, "people will become not less but more aware of differing arguments as they become heavier Internet users." We are at a time of enormous accessibility, and it is up to the users to provide thoughtful insight while carefully choosing sources to consider.

Overall, the floodgates are open. There is now more out there than anyone could manage seeing through. The only headway one can make is through directed search. When I go online now, it is for a purpose. Maybe I've learned that I don't find screen time to be all that stimulating, but I feel that having a specific objective cuts down the clutter of the net. Using this tactic, the copious links, articles, opinions and even pop-ups become manageable.
Deeper truth, though, is that we have begun using the web as a social crutch. If you want to know something about someone, you should ask, do not consult their profile. I cannot tell you how many times I've heard people determining the lameness of using a Facebook message for romantic means. That is just society becoming intimidated by itself. It is too easy to keep the distance, but feel like you're making the effort.
No! I say. The Internet has a place, and I'll be on the front lines trying to keep these boundaries intact. For the rest, I wish you the best of luck finding personal balance between access and self restraint.
Sounding off,
BJ F

























